Last Updated:  March 2007

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Email BFDeal@BFDeal.org
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BFDEAL01
Located Olmsted Twp., OH  44138 (Cleveland)
Age PRIME
Ethnicity Caucasian
 

German

75%

Hungarian

25%

Marital Status Single, never married.
Kids? No
Want kids? Maybe
Height
5' 9" If I stand up straight,  head back, and look down my nose like ICE-T, people think I'm tall. 
Body Former gymnast, wrestler, diver, judo, karate, extreme snow skier, short-line water skier, state of MI chin-up champ.

I'm kind of hyper.  When I sleep, I vibrate.

Hair Missing some, dark brown.
My look says I don't mess around
(with a comb.  There isn't anything to comb.)
Eye Color Interesting brown, deep, wise, compassionate.
Why is eye color on personal sites?  Does anybody ever get swayed due to eye color?
Smoke? Sometimes.
Drink? I like Sam Adams, dry white wine, and I have a tequila collection. 
Drugs? No.
Spirituality

I'm not sure.
If spirituality isn't about drinking, why do they call it spirits?

Education Educated  Education is a life-long process.
Profession Programmer, Scientist, Writer, Entrepreneur
More
Hobbies I love to cook and I'm very good at it.
Water and snow skiing, motorcycle riding, swimming, snorkel, scuba, boating, sailing, unicycle, inline skating, golf, magic, science, technology, computers, travel, movies, writing, motorcycles, photography, video, foosball, chess, history, paranormal.
Languages Fluent in English and Spanish.
Conversational Portuguese, some Italian.
MY MATCH
Gender Female
Age 25-45
Ethnicity Any
Height Any
Body Fit
Location Accessible
Appearance Attractive, provocative
Other Brainy, wild

About Me.

I’m real.  I am not afraid to be.  THAT is what makes me different.  You won’t always like what I say, but you won’t wonder where I stand.  Unless you look and I'm not there..  Then you'll wonder where I stand.

Naturally, I've got the basics, success, health, education, etc.  For the right woman, she will have no complaints and nobody she'd rather be with.

Life dealt me a generous hand.  Athletics, education, success, culture, the works, it’s all there and was easy.  I cut my own path, fearless and confident, I do what I want, say it like it is, everything about me is innovative and extreme.

To be normal would be a waste.  It’s not my destiny.  I've had luxury, frolic, and traveled the world.  I've considered life, family, community, God, even to be king.  Being king was tempting.  But none of the places I've been are where I want to focus. Resources, intelligence, and energy have brought me to enlightenment early in life.  I'm selfish.  Self interest is the only motivator.  I believe you have to be selfish to be genuine in generosity.

I’m a lover of life, knowledge, and especially people. 

I relish experiences, even conflict sometimes, which I call strong experiences. Those ahead of me, I give a boost and say go for it.  Those behind me, I offer my hand.  I have no role models.  I take whatever I enjoy about others and make it mine.  With discernment, I pass on what I can, more when appreciated, imparting a bit of me on others. 

I’m vain but I don't dwell on it.  I just don't ignore the facts.  I’m an over achiever, adrenaline loving bad boy, never boring, questioning everything, relentless and starving for data, passion to the bone, compassion , a sense of duty to brethren, incapable of feeling offended, and I have never lost my temper even once in my life. 

I'm not just intelligent, I'm incredibly intelligent.  Sometimes it makes me come off as weird.  Get used to it.

About fun.  Everybody likes fun, that's why it's called fun.  I have fun all day, all night.  Does anybody ever say they are a big stick in the mud, party spoiling grinch?
 

 


About Her.

She’s slim, attractive, provocative, and wears her sex like a badge.  Like me, she answers to nobody, forms her own opinions, and does not apologize for them.  She knows what drives men wild and revels in her ability to do so.  She has it, knows it, and shows it.   She is feminine, soft, sexy, deviant, clever, creative, competent, and smart.

What she is on the outside is a reflection of the inside. 

She loves life and she loves people despite that so many she finds annoying.  Everybody loves her.
 

 


LIARS.

Where's all the liars?  Everybody is honest.  It says so right on their profile! 

The truth is, we all lie when it seems like the better choice.  The difference with me is that I rarely think it's the better choice.  Most people lie for fear of the potential consequence of truth.  That's why I rarely lie.  I'm not afraid.
 

Get real.  You lie, they lie, I lie.  We only differ in the how often, how big the lies are, and why.

I've read what most men on personals sites write and it's mostly what they think you want to hear:

I'm attracted to creative intelligent women.
I'm Honest, caring, ..."


Good qualities perhaps, but honestly, most men want the same thing.  Someone they are attracted to.  All the rest is icing.

Most men will not even flinch about lying, if they think it's what you want to hear.  Everything they say is tailored to cater to be in your favor.  Don't you hate that?  I do.  I especially hated having to do it, thinking that I'd get cut off with the first wrong answer. 

A real man doesn't put himself in a position to have to lie in the first place. He is not afraid of being himself, that you wont like him, or to take responsibility for his actions.  He's not afraid of telling you the truth.  It takes balls, self esteem,  and brains.  Brains because I know a smart man knows it's almost always best in the long wrong to tell the truth because down the line, nothing will bother someone like finding out they were lied to and that bother will last a long time.

OK, the little stuff no big deal, but that little stuff adds up too.  And she probably can tell by your face anyway.  Men that lie are mostly afraid of YOU, and that's why they are pussies. Even here in their profiles, they are afraid. Afraid you won't like them or will get mad or be turned off if they tell the truth, if they just be themselves, and if they say it like it is.  A lot of them are right.  You WILL get turned off when they tell it like it is.  Hey, better now than later.

Don't you think it's about time some men took back their balls?

If you've read this far, you've made it to the end.  That means you're the CHAMP! 

Read the links to the left.  It's where all the good stuff is.

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Yahoo IM:  BFDeal01 
----------note:  this is the very best way to contact me, we can chat.