From a mans point of view, what do think that most men are really looking for brains or body? 

The body is more important. However, you'd be surprised how many flaws a man will be blind to if he likes you, and how many flaws he'll find if he doesn't. That's where the brain comes into play. Also, while all men love a body like the ones seen in magazines, they don't require it. Any more than you require a set of rippled abs on him. It's nice, but not required.

What he does require is that a woman does the most she can with what she has to make herself visually attractive. It's all in the packaging. See www.BocaChicaBeach.net/what_is_sexy/before_and_after.html to see what I mean. Even a below average girl can become above average with effort.

There are other things that can make up for not being visually appealing, but they do not include cooking, cleaning, balancing the checkbook, having money, or being smart and interesting. That will get you a good friend, but not draw his romantic interest. There is only one thing that will draw his romantic interest, well 2 actually, and that is to be sexually visually appealing. Not all the time, but in his mind.

For example, if you are not so hot most of the time, he won't remember the one night you were. If you are hot most of the time, he won't remember the one night you were not when he's away and thinking of you.

The 2nd way to a man's heart is to let him know that you think he is the best in all ways, especially that you find him sexy and why. A man will have sexual interest in a woman when he things she has sexual interest in him and believes it. Without sexual interest, there is no chance for any other kind of interest, so it all starts with looking good.

The are some very simple ways a woman can improve her looks in minutes. It has to do with what she is wearing, how she smells, the look on her face when she looks at him, a smile, radiating lust, acting horny and sexual, good posture, and making the first move in a soft and sensual way - touching breasts against him for example.

To recap, the body is important, but a woman with a good mind can use that mind to make her man perceive her as the hottest girl in town. Than, and the male's cutoff point is usually 2 whole numbers beyond what we can get. If we can get 10's, we have no problem going for 8.s If we normally could get a 7, we'll accept a 5 as equal to the 7.

After a man gets the sexuality part fulfilled, what he looks for is someone that is pleasing on the eyes and easy to be around. He doesn't need a maid or servant. Those score points, just not the right kind of points.

Never underestimate the draw of cleavage and the repulsion of a sweatshirt. See http://www.BocaChicaBeach.net/what_is_sexy for candid advice to women from men. You won't like much of what you read, but that doesn't change the facts. And remember, it is how he feels about you that counts in the long run, but he'll never start feeling that way if you don't first appeal to him sexually.

Any woman can make up for a lack in the looks department by being absolutely amazing in bed. Just make sure the lights are low, the smell is sweet, the touch is soft, that he feels like a stud, that he feels you think he is a stud, and use drugs and alcohol if necessary, it will be worth it. Men DO recall those moments.

And don't try to make him jealous, it won't work. Instead, tell him you were bragging to your friends and family and they were all jealous and think he is hot. And include why to maintain credibility.

Above all, frequently tell him the MAIN reason you like him is because he's the only guy you've ever met that actually KNOWS how to fuck well. Or save that one for when you are in a fight, he'll come back in an instant.