Friends.  

Testimonials

Friends Date of Testimonial
Vicki Bartson 11/21/2004
Marina Acocella 03/15/2004
Iana Filion 11/25/2003
Jodi Lauttamus 10/21/2003
 

Everyday we walk past things we don’t notice or we take for granted.  Then, once in our lives, we are given the opportunity to stand beside something great; so great, it is actually hard to imagine.  The sad part is that most people, when in this rare situation, do not realize this and keep on going as if nothing. 

If they only knew that for a brief moment they encountered a kind of man God sends down ever so rarely to show the rest of us what we should be like.  Instead though, we are just us.  He is what every man should be and what no woman deserves, and no one that has ever lived or is to come will ever compare to him. 

It’s not about the ordinary things people like to compete in like perfect teeth, perfect hair, perfect bodies; it’s about the person-the soul that beats in his heart and fills his veins with dominion.  There’s such a power within him, he can hardly contain it within his own body.  It seems to exude through every pore and shine through his eyes and smile like fire-untamable fire. 

His character seems to come from a fairy tale.  A knight with courage, honor and pride.  A knight that can kill a monstrous dragon that threatens the people to then go home and make his woman feel like a cherished rare flower.  He would give up his life to save another yet he would fight to live so he could return to the woman who’s life and world revolves around him. 

He is the force that pushes everyone ahead; a force that can motivate the very best in you with just a single glance.  He is that castle in the sky and he’s also that secret lair of forbidden fantasy; both being places everyone longs and dreams to visit. 

He is a rock of a man; nothing could penetrate him-unless he allows it.  And there, underneath this solid fortress is a beautiful place; vulnerable and soft.  His wounded heart lays alone in the dark awaiting someone to come and revive it and make it secure again.  He longs to give that sweet secret part of him to someone who will know it’s worth and cherish it and replace it with a piece of themselves, making them both still whole, but only within each other. 

Iana Filion - 11/25/03
Friend - 19

We dream of a man, how he will be and how he will treat us. We dream about how we want to be treated. We dream of our future. Look past his front, go deep inside, and you'll find a man who can capture every dream and make them come true.

Vicki Bartson - 11/21/2004

The Arabian horse...sadly, most people who work with horses don't understand the magnificent Arabian.  The Arabian embodies everything that is perfection in a horse: endurance, speed, athleticism and heart. Then there is beauty, sensitivity and extreme intelligence. 

Humans are perhaps too caught up in their own superiority to recognize this and fail to appreciate the intrinsic beauty of this creature.   Though each breed of horse has a characteristic or two that is reminiscent of the Arabian, like the thoroughbreds who are swift racers, the quick and agile quarter horse, and the warm bloods whose strength and scope are revered, no breed can come close to what the Arabian is.

You are like the Arabian.   You personify all the characteristics that make the Arabian horse who he is.  That is it in a nutshell.  It's a bunch of little things.  You let me bitch and complain and you continue to be the rock I can rant to.  You provide intellectual stimulation without ever being boring, you "accept" me for who I am, but at the same time, you push if you think I can improve.  You give me your time...that's a big, big thing, especially since you are so busy.  I was hooked from the beginning because you are a good speller (one of those things). You are physically attractive, engaging, challenging, intelligent, and sexy without trying to be.

It hurts me that you let women take advantage of your kindness and generosity so they can turn around and screw somebody else.  That I don't understand.  Maybe, even though you say you are blissfully happy, I recognize something else in your eyes…pain? Loneliness?  I cannot profess to understand all of who you are, but I try. 

When people judge you without knowing you, without trying to know you, you offer understanding. I try not to get angry when they don’t see what is now so plain to me. Not until I met you did I realize how ready you were to smile and laugh.  There is a certain gentleness about you (for lack of a better word), a peacefulness, but still the feeling that you are on the edge. Somehow, you are able to make yourself available to those who need your help...how rare is that in a person these days?  You are a very giving person. 

You give yourself, your time, your name to a little girl, money to those in need…and even opportunities to people who would benefit. You are a totally no bullshit, straightforward, say what you think kind of guy, a rarity, indeed.

Marina Acocella - 03/15/2004
Friend - 36

Hey bfdeal, I just returned from NYC, and if your ears were ringing Sunday afternoon, it's because my best friend Tonya and I were reading your stuff.  You are the best.  She said I'm probably the only person in the world who could get you and take you...and I have plans to do both.  So here are two gorgeous hot babes in NYC with way too many men chasing us. We read your website and ordered Chinese food because you entertained us so much we didn't have to go out.  You are more man than the 50 that are stalking me!!!! we love you, darling.

Jodi Lauttamus - 10/21/2003
Friend - 36